feat(auth): make automatic logout an opt-in per-user setting (#1536)

* feat(auth): make automatic logout an opt-in per-user setting

Session timeouts (30 min idle / 12 h absolute on hosted) now apply only
to users who enable "Automatic logout" in Settings > Security. Default
is off: sessions live for the full Supabase refresh-token lifetime, the
behavior from before the 2026-07 session hardening.

- user_preferences.auto_logout (migration, default false), toggled via
  the extended /api/user/preferences route
- The opt-in is snapshotted into the signed timeout cookie at mint, so
  enforcement stays DB-read-free per request; the preferences route
  clears the cookie on change so a toggle takes effect immediately
- Pre-toggle cookies are authentic-but-stale: re-minted preserving
  their timers, never routed down the tamper path, so the rollout does
  not log anyone out
- NEXT_PUBLIC_SESSION_TIMEOUT_FORCE_ALL=true enforces timeouts for
  every user regardless of preference (emergency lever, also plumbed
  through the Docker image); self-hosted stays disabled by default

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

* fix(auth): resolve PR #1536 review findings

- Replace the spread upsert in /api/user/preferences with one literal
  payload per field: the phantom-column schema guard cannot resolve
  spread payloads (Unit tests 3/4 ceiling failure)
- Map the preferences 500 through getErrorMessage so the user-facing
  text is Swedish (CodeRabbit)
- fetchAutoLogoutPreference now returns null on a FAILED read instead
  of a fail-open false: callers skip minting so an unknown preference
  is never persisted into the year-long signed cookie, and the next
  request retries; failures log at error level, distinct from the
  normal opt-out path (compliance swarm GDPR Art.32(1)(b) / ISO A.8.5)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

* fix(auth): write multi-field preference updates as one atomic upsert

A request carrying both hide_assistant_fab and auto_logout previously
issued two sequential writes, so a failure of the second returned 500
after half the request had persisted (CodeRabbit, PR #1536). One
literal upsert per accepted field combination keeps the write atomic
and stays resolvable for the phantom-column schema guard.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

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Co-authored-by: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

supabase/migrations/20260812134817_add_auto_logout_preference.sql

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+-- Per-user opt-in automatic logout (founder-approved 2026-08-12): the hosted
+-- session timeouts (idle/absolute) only apply to users who enable this.
+-- Default false keeps everyone signed in for the full Supabase session
+-- lifetime, the behavior from before the 2026-07 session hardening.
+alter table public.user_preferences
+  add column if not exists auto_logout boolean not null default false;
+
+notify pgrst, 'reload schema';